going sTeady...

I didn't think much when I wrote about my funniest moment. How could I? How can somebody enjoy something which makes no sense to them let alone be funny. I even wrote it as a self dare just to see if I can. But I guess enough people thought it was funny. So Arun, here goes another one on paper.

This time around, Arun was visiting me in Mysore and as usual we had a great time. You see, Mysore is one of those places, which looks so ordinary and 'o my god' boring on a day to day basis but taken to the right place on the right time with (of course) the right people there is no place like it. I have even been to the exact same place twice; the first time I couldn't wait to get out, even thought to myself, if this is what they call a picnic place probably their streets would be filled with death. But the next time; it was about a half a kilometer away, the sun about to set and with a bunch of people I hold so dear. It was magic. I had one of my best times. So coming to the night in question.

Again I was (as you might guess) very tired. We both were watching TV and I dozed off. Then I was told (I didn't remember a thing until he told me the whole deal in the morning), it was about thirty minutes later that Arun had slept. He says, moments after that; I woke up, got up, turned on the light, lie down again, then woke him up and asked him why the lights were on and to turn it off. Good times, maybe scary times for him but nevertheless those were the days.

I always remember what Robin William's character says in Good Will Hunting. It goes something like this, it does not matter if you are perfect or she is perfect, what matters most is that you both are perfect for each other. And I think this holds good even between friends. We are all imperfect in our own way, maybe I should exclude Arun, I think given the circumstances he is as perfect as it gets. But seriously, you cannot find more diverse group of four, anywhere. Any given time, one of us doesn’t really understand or appreciate another's action. Vadi might not understand why I got to buy that mobile/ that car/ that bag/ that watch/ that shoes, for that matter anything. Vadi doesn’t understand why Karthik can’t/won’t make it to the LV trip. Karthik doesn’t get why Vadi wont get a girl and Arun is wondering why Karthik gets all the girls(I might be killed for saying all this) and I still can't understand why Arun had to leave because some college mate of mine is coming to town. But here is the spoiler; we have always; whatever the circumstance stood by each other. Without prejudice, without judgment, without question, without nothing.

Further more, I cannot count the number of times they have all saved me. Not just helping out with money or advice or consoling but help me in a way that gives meaning to life worth living for. When I fly they keep me rooted, when I'm distracted they keep me focused and when am down (I don’t know why but I keep remembering this) they ask me how can you say you have reached the bottom because I'm right below you pushing you up. Smile. I can go on, same as anyone of us would speak about the other.

We started out together in school, then college together, and then work together and we even stayed together. But now some of us are married, in different countries, different work life but there is a beauty in it, see fate can only take you so long; its then up to us to walk rest of the way. And so here we are ten years now, it takes a lot of effort and a lot of sacrifice but then, all this is worth it. Guys, thank you for everything; thank you for nothing. Here is another one that makes so much sense to me. "They said, I bet they'll never make it. But just look at us holding on; we’re still together still going strong"

I would be the first to acknowledge, I am imperfect in so many ways you don’t dare imagine but then again we are perfect.